To Teen, Female Latchkey Protectors Who Are "Cool" Medical Doctors:

A "secret question" from "females" to actual medical doctors, who are "cool" with my nose ring. I'm fourteen years old. Even though I don't have sex, my school's teachers help me all the time in "being more proper." My parents hate me, so I have to be put into a private, Catholic school. My Dad often beat me and often called me a "slut." The alter boys call me those same types of names.

Are all of these people allowed to touch me down there? Also, there been a difference in my vaginal discharge now. Is it from swimming, or from their touching of my private parts? Can you give out books on this at all private schools, including anything about normal vaginal discharge? Can I be pregnant even though I always douche after they touch me? Also, my breasts hurt so badly, and I missed my period. If pregnant, what are my rights for an abortion? Will/Can the police make me have a baby, if my parents don't allow abortions?

Answer from a D.C. Metro-raised, minority veteran, whose female, and formerly enlisted:

1. Vaginal discharge can vary, based on many factors. Bathing and swimming can affect it, as well as ovulation. You should find a female law enforcement officer/police officer, and visit to speak with them in person, at the police department. The reason why is because sometimes criminals/terrorists will impersonate police officers. Also, some real police officers can be corrupt.

Try to safely get to your police department. It's completely legal for you to go there even without permission from anyone in a position of trust (e.g. safely via a cab/taxi). If you also dial "911" and tell them all of those things, they will usually know what to do, and how to get you to the right medical doctors. The "cool" ones may not be trustworthy. Remember, to ask for a victim's advocate to support you, and accompany you for your own safety.

Try to get a board-certified pediatrian, M.D./D.O., with at least ten years experience after getting board-certified. Also, attempt to only get medical treatment with an accompanying female, victim's advocate and a female, pediatric, nurse practioner/female, pediatric, physician assistant in the examining and doctor's office. They have medical training in helping victims of: sexual molestation, domestic violence, psychological abuse, physical abuse and sexual abuse.

A person called a district judge has training in the legal portion for your situation. Remember, with any district attorneys, or district judges, try to always be accompanied by your female, sexual molestation expert, whose a trained and certified victim's advocate, assigned by your district court, which could also be possibly corrupt. Try not to trust anyone, even if they are in a position of trust. It's safer to report all abuse to every surrounding counties' district courts also.

Here's an ACLU link that says abortions sometimes require a court waiver, without parental consent, but that waiver could delay the possibility of an abortion for a minor. The American Academy of Pediatrics, and American Medical Association both disagree that minors should require parental consent.

https://www.aclu.org/reproductive-freedom/laws-restricting-teenagers-access-abortion

However, even with parental consent for an abortion, I think that the district courts need to assist you, in order to protect you from being repeatedly sexually molested, along with physically and psychologically abused though. The most important thing is your own physical, and psychological safety, and well-being.

If you decide to have an abortion, remember that it's best to go with a board-certified, medical doctor, whose an OB/GYN, and has at least ten years experience, without any allegations of patient abuse, medical malpractice, or medical neglect.